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Didactic and Reactic
The bees got me, accidentally of course. It was still early-morning dark and once again they had drained the hummingbird feeder and it needed refilling; and being sensitive to both temperature and light the bees should have all be gone. But one remained and as I went to wash the feeder in the sink; it sacrificed it life and stung the inside of my palm (honeybees, in their stinging, leave their stinger which also means a good portion of their innards...they do this knowing that stinging![]() |
My hand after 15 minutes |
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My hand after an hour |
Yes, as I've mentioned before, I have quite the allergic reaction to bee and wasp stings (the wasp is built differently than the honeybee and can sting repeatedly without any threat to its life). For some people, such reactions can be caused by eating shellfish or another type of food or even something which might be occurring in the body itself such as asthma. And the end results can be everything from splotches and hives to swelling and unconsciousness; indeed had I been stung in the throat or stung by multiple bees (as Africanized honeybees are known to do), I would likely "be" gone, even with the use of my adrenaline pen or pens. But, like someone flirting with danger, I like the bees.


Of course, the thought of my throat closing up and also having me face a slow suffocation is an alarming (and perhaps not so wise) one. Which also serves to remind me not to take this life for granted, that every single day is one to cherish; should I collapse unexpectedly and perhaps for good, I had better have all my ducks in a row, so to speak. So that brings up the trust and will and handing over power. Why do it now, why not wait until one is in such bad shape or on one's final days before making such moves; after all if someone can access your checking and whatever else then you had better be pretty sure that you trust them. Which is the real question isn't it, not that we're eventually going to perish because we're all going to perish eventually, but is there someone that you trust so much that you'd be willing to hand over your finances, passwords, hiding places and well, your life. But look it the other way, you experience something perhaps not fatal but debilitating, enough to put you in the hospital for a while and perhaps fighting for your life or just fighting to regain consciousness. Now what? Animals at home, bills piling up, medical decisions to make, people to notify? Who's going to do that? Let's say you're vacationing in Morocco and you trip on something, bang your head and after a headache and telling people that everything is fine, you black out. Now what? Where are you staying? Where's your passport (at the hotel, in the safe?), are you allergic to anything, should they do emergency surgery if you somehow have an internal bleed? Well, you chuckle, it won't happen, at least not to me and certainly not now for I'm young, and healthy, and a good person. But it does happen, and did happen to a friend of mine, her mother hitting her head and being serious enough that she was held for observation in a hospital for several days, then released. Scans showed nothing, just go home and don't do anything strenuous she was told. In another two days, she was dead...a tiny internal bleed that somehow didn't show in the scans.
In the U.S., many such forms (including what your health wishes are should such an accident happen -- whether you want extraordinary measures taken such as feeding tubes and artificial breathing tubes put in you or just want to let nature take its course but to manage your pain and anxiety) are available free online and generally issued by or specifically intended for your state of residence. But they often need to be signed and officially stamped and witnessed (a notary or similar); having such documents filled out but not signed or so stamped is the same as not having them at all, at least to the banks and courts (otherwise anyone could fill such papers out and rob you blind). And I've known family members who did everything except that, sign and notarize their wills...thus, no wills. On the other hand as I watched my mother's mental ability diminish --to make big decisions or to even sign her name properly-- I was thankful that despite having to jump through the hoops with her insurance and banks and medical people, she had given me such power. I could sell her house, pay her insurance, pay for her care, talk with her doctor, make decisions and carry out her wishes (she was coherent to the end but losing her short term memory, as in 30-minutes later, gone). Had I tried to obtain those powers-of-attorney while she was losing her memory I would have likely been unable to do so and thus would have faced a slew of problems including what to do with her house which was out of state (there are many versions of POA in the U.S., some of which are very limited that only "spring" into action when you are comatose or in a serious accident, as well as those which you can "revoke" at any point). But often it takes reaching a point in one's life for such trust and power-giving decisions to emerge -- age, relatives or friends suddenly passing, a book you've read, a tragedy, even something as small as a bee sting.
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Photo from the National Geographic article |
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